• Ask Bex #1

    Ask Bex #1

    Y’all I am so excited. SO excited. I put out a call for questions on Twitter a few weeks back and was AMAZED by how many fantastic responses people sent in! I’m going to try to make this a semi regular thing, because I frankly adore giving advice, mostly because ...

  • Seven SFW Saucy Snaps to Send Your Sweetie

    Seven SFW Saucy Snaps to Send Your Sweetie

    My Sir lives more than 12k miles away from me, so, as you might imagine, sexting is a pretty vital part of our relationship. That said, the cocktail of gender dysphoria and insecurities brewing in my brain mean I’m not always in the right headspace to send him nudes ev...

  • The Art of Receiving: How to Feel Your Pleasure & Make Others Want to Give It

    The Art of Receiving: How to Feel Your Pleasure & Make Others Want to Give It

    I’m pulled over a cute boy’s knee, moments after our first kiss while he tentatively spanks me. “You know” he says in between smacks “I don’t usually do this, I tried it once before and it wasn’t really my thing, but you’re jus...

  • What Couples Toys Taught Me About Sex Positivity

    What Couples Toys Taught Me About Sex Positivity

    Here’s the thing about working in a sex shop, you are asked the exact same questions, all day, every day. Here’s the thing about being asked the exact same questions, all day, every day, you get pretty damn good at answering them. Unfortunately, one of the most c...

  • Why Do I Love Sucking Cock?

    Why Do I Love Sucking Cock?

    I was 8 when I finally asked my mom the question, oh, you know the one. We were sitting in the front seat of her secondhand Ford sedan and I could no longer settle for “inside the mommy’s belly,” I wanted to know where babies came from. “Well, so̷...