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A Pup and Their Pure Plug

Pure Plug and New Bottoming Book

The first time my Sir punished me was also the first time I wore the Njoy Pure Plug out of the house. In the past I’d worn other plugs in public, mostly the Bootie, occasionally the Tantus Juice, but every time I tried my large Pure Plug it just felt, well, large. It was so substantial and heavy that the thought of wearing it for any length of time was intimidating. It was two days ... Read More »

Three Days

Are You Okay?

[TW: Passing mentions of self-harm and food things] Tuesday night I was supposed to play a game. “What if you had to have an orgasm for every blue state win?” my sir proposed, and I giggled with glee. The first thing he had said to me that morning was “Make sure you vote today, pup” and our shared enthusiasm about this election had me bursting with affection for him. I wanted to hug him. I ... Read More »

Sex Down South AKA Hi! Did You Know I’m Submissive?

Sex Down South isn’t a kink event per-say, and yet at times, this year’s felt like an entire event dedicated to my submission. I was a demo bottom, learned skills and theories that seemed perfectly tailored to my brand of submission, swapped tips with a submissive friend of mine, and spent so much time talking with my Sir that it almost felt like he was there. It all started with a 3 hour bus ride to ... Read More »

Yes/No/Maybe List- Sex Geek Edition

yes-no-maybe

Now, this may come as quite a shock to you, but I’m a bit of an organization nerd. I have been known to moan (appreciatively and erotically) over a well organized spreadsheet and it’s not an exaggeration when I say that cleaning my room makes me happier than most other things. Naturally, when I was a wee little sex geek and stumbled across my first Yes, No, Maybe list I was thrilled. An organized and concise ... Read More »

#BirthdayBruises- Adventures in Exhibitionistic Masochism

#BirthdayBruises

I have the best friends. Like seriously, the BEST friends. The kinds of friends that, when I say “Hey, want to come beat me up for my birthday? And maybe put it on the internet?” The answer I receive is an overwhelming, enthusiastic, HELL YES. Perhaps that needs some more explination? On September the 15th I turned 25, and as part of my celebration my best friend and I threw a spanking party. As you ... Read More »

Announcing- The Dildorks Podcast!

the-dildorks

I love podcasts. I started listening to them back in high school on road trips, long bus rides, while working on mindless tasks, or even during the occasional attempt at working out. The gym habit never stuck1 but the podcast addiction did, and it wasn’t long before I was wondering what it would be like to create my own. What would it be about? Well, sex. Obviously. But what specific sexy niche would it fill? Who would ... Read More »

5 Surefire ways to Incur the Wrath of the BlogSquad

Annoyed Bex

I have never felt more at home than I have with the Blogsquad. They are my chosen family and my best friends and the some of the raddest revolutionaries I know- but sometimes, sex toy companies seem to want to quickly and easily enrage as many influencers in a community as possible. Today, I’ve partnered with EdenFantasys to teach you how to do just that. "As a group we are loud, we make shit happen, we don't ... Read More »

Bites, Wails, and Puppy Dog Tails

Puppy Play

Leap day 2016, New York City. Somewhere right about in the middle of the intersection of 59th and 3rd. That was the first time someone called me pup. I’ve since forgotten what the rest of the text message read, but that word stood out to me, it stopped me dead in my tracks. I giggled nervously on the crowded street and squealed back “you just called me pup!” as if he had somehow typed it on ... Read More »

One Link At A Time: Adventures in Chain Fisting

Chain Fisting

“I have to tell you about that workshop I went to!” my coworker excitedly told me as I walked into my office last week. “OH Yea! Fisting right?” She had invited me to the workshop earlier in the week, but I had work and, as it wouldn’t have been the first fisting workshop I’d ever seen, I wasn’t super bummed about having to miss it. “CHAIN fisting” she corrected. “oh… right….” I imagined a chain of ... Read More »

No, My Last Relationship Wasn’t a Waste

Bex at Desk

Not long ago I was chatting with a co-worker when I casually mentioned my ex. I mentioned, in passing, that we had been together for more than six years and she said: “Wow, that’s terrible that over six years of your life was wasted with him.” She wasn’t trying to be awful, in fact, I think she was trying to be supportive. It’s a common sentiment after a breakup, but when you think about it ... Read More »