Three Days

Are You Okay?

[TW: Passing mentions of self-harm and food things] Tuesday night I was supposed to play a game. “What if you had to have an orgasm for every blue state win?” my sir proposed, and I giggled with glee. The first thing he had said to me that morning was “Make sure you vote today, pup” and our shared enthusiasm about this election had me bursting with affection for him. I wanted to hug him. I ... Read More »

Company Spotlight: Kiiroo

Kiiroo Products

Based on extensive research in my own head (and pants) we have learned that an increase in global communication thanks to the internet leads to an increase in Twitter crushes and the desire to fuck people who live way-far-away. Many companies have already tried to step in and capitalize on this, to varying degrees of success, but it is still a largely untapped market. Enter: Kiiroo. Kiiroo is relatively new to the industry, founded in ... Read More »

New from Lelo: WaveMotion

Lelo Mona Wave

Let’s talk about Lelo for a second shall we? Because I’ll be honest, they’ve pulled some shit these last few years. So much so that nearly every time I gather with my peers in the sex positive and review community the “what’s going on with Lelo” conversation is bound to come up. The thing is, I think many of us want to like Lelo, we’re all waiting for their proud come back, because at the ... Read More »

Black Friday Sex Toy Sales

The time has come, the biggest shopping weekend of the year is here, and the sales are abundant. Luckily, these sales aren’t limited to flat screen TVs and that mixer for mom, many of my favorite companies are offering steep discounts on toys, lingerie, lubes, porn, books, and sexcessories galore and I’ve collected them all here for you! Check back often because as the sales are updated so will this page, you can also follow ... Read More »

The G-Spot and Female Ejaculation

G-Spot Toys

The G-spot was first documented in 1950 by German Gynecologist Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg and was popularized in The G-Spot by Alice Kahn Ladas, Beverly Whipple, and John D. Perry which was published in 1982. Since then the G-spot had become a household name (though maybe not necessarily the kind of thing discussed over the dinner table) and many women have dedicated at least a play session or two to finding theirs. I was lucky, I actually found ... Read More »

Lelo ORA: Yet Another Oral Sex Simulator

Oh look, another innovative toy designed to simulate oral sex, this time from the folks at Lelo. They’ve named it Ora (get it? Ora/ Oral, eh? ehhhh? -nudge nudge-) and it looks like a fusion of the Lelo Alia and JeJoue Sasi. It has ten different stimulation modes, including vibration and what they’re calling “massage strokes”. These “strokes” appear to be created by a small nub moving under a layer of silicone, which seems to be the ... Read More »

A Remote Controlled Vibe that Doesn’t Suck?

Maybe, maybe not. Now, we all know wearable vibrators suck. It’s just a fact of their existence, I’ve never seen one or read a review of one that doesn’t suck. They’re often made of crappy materials, they don’t stay in place, the remotes don’t work, they’re too loud AND too weak; they really don’t have much going for them. With that in mind, every time I see one I still have that glimmer of excitement, I ... Read More »

My Top Ten Must See Sessions for CatalystCon East

It’s now less than three months until Sex Geeks across the country (world?) will be flocking to out nations capital to celebrate and start exceptional conversations about sex positivity, activism, sex toys, education, kink, polyamory, sex work, and everything else sex geeks love at Catalyst Con East. In addition to social events, there will be 40 sessions spanning March 15-16, and Opening Keynote on the 14th, and a closing keynote on the 16th. Not long ... Read More »

Vibease the First “Smart” Vibrator

“Fifty Shades of Grey comes to life with Vibease” This was my introduction to Vibease, and I almost walked away right there. You all know how I, and most of the rest of the sex positive community feel about Fifty Shades, but I persevered, because it is my job to bring knowledge of the good, the bad, and the ugly to you. Surprisingly, what I found was what could actually be a very interesting idea. ... Read More »

Dildology Finds Phthalates in the James Deen Realistic Dildo

For those of you that may not have heard, Dildology is a wonderful organization that had made it their mission to test sex toys to verify (or dispute) the manufacturers’ material claims. As they describe: The sex toy industry is on the rise, yet it remains largely unregulated. intends to provide material verification services and maintain a public database of the results, adding transparency and oversight to the industry while educating the public about ... Read More »