Review: The Swan Wand

Swan Wand

It’s not often a new vibrator catches my eye the way the Swan Wand did. Plenty of wands boast “Magic Wand level vibrations”, and quite a few of them even manage it, but I already I already have a Magic Wand Rechargable, so all the other similar wands seem redundant.1 What stood out to me about the Swan Wand wasn’t the vibrations, it was the insertable, G-Spot friendly shape, and the 2.5″ diameter on the …

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Review: Maia Wand

Maia Wand Review

I had a dream about this wand. I dreamed that someone recommended that I use it upside down and backwards, and when I tried it I thought “Wow! This isn’t half bad!” Dream me is an idiot. And let me be clear, I wasn’t dreaming about the Maia Wand because I was overcome with excitement to try it, in fact, it was quite the opposite. I was dreading wasting a perfectly good masturbation session on …

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Ask Bex- Gender Expression and Book Recommendations

Ask Bex

Hi Bex! I am in a poly relationship and I struggle with my bisexual role with my girlfriend. I want to explore being more “butch” as it feels right with her but that isn’t my day to day identity with my husband or my boyfriend/Dom. I can’t get my brain and social norms to stop influencing my behavior when I am with her. We have talked about this before and she is understanding and wants …

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A Pup and Their Pure Plug

Pure Plug and New Bottoming Book

The first time my Sir punished me was also the first time I wore the Njoy Pure Plug out of the house. In the past I’d worn other plugs in public, mostly the Bootie, occasionally the Tantus Juice, but every time I tried my large Pure Plug it just felt, well, large. It was so substantial and heavy that the thought of wearing it for any length of time was intimidating. It was two days …

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Review: Vixen Maverick

I’m bad at favorites. I don’t have a favorite movie, and if I have to decide on a birthday dinner I’m suddenly reminded of every vaguely delicious thing I’ve ever eaten. When people ask me who “my” Doctor is, the answer is whichever one I’ve watched most recently, and my favorite Pokemon is an entire damn team.1 However, I can confidently say: the Maverick is my favorite dildo. I know I’ve said this before, but to be …

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Review: L’amourose Prism VII

L'amourose Prism VII

If you read even a small handful of sex toy blogs, you’ve heard of the Lelo Mona 2, everyone’s favorite multipurpose vibe. For a good long time, the Mona was my go to recommendation for people who wanted a high end beginner toy. The gently curved shaft is comfortable internally or externally, the powerful motor offers a wide range of speeds, it’s rechargeable, waterproof, silicone, all around just a really solid vibe. Then Lelo started …

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Review: Hole Punch Fluke

Hole Punch Fluke

Sometimes I can tell you right away how I feel about a toy. Right out of the box1 I’m either writing love sonnets or brainstorming the most effective ways to destroy it for all eternity. Other times I am decidedly indifferent about a product, I couldn’t care less if it fell onto my clit or into a volcano, both instances would be met with a resounding “meh”. It’s rare that a product oscillates between these …

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Review: Tantus Uncut #1 & #2

Tantus Uncut #1 & #2

It’s been two months since writers block hit and in that time I’ve developed a rather impressive backlog of things I need to tell you about. There was #DildoHoliday, and Woodhull, and countless new toys. There have been new friends, and OKC misadventures, and some pro-level flirting, but through all of that there’s one thing that I feel most guilty about not sharing with you. We need to talk about how amazing these new Tantus Uncuts are. …

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Review: Come Again Sex Toy Erotica

Come Again Book

As you might have noticed, I have feelings about sex toys. Opinions. Strong ones. I’m a bit finicky about my erotica too for that matter, because when it’s good I love it, but when it’s bad, it’s really, really, laughably bad. So when Rachel Kramer Bustle decided to combine the two with Come Again, an anthology of sex toy themed erotica, I was… concerned. I knew that these stories would, primarily (if not exclusively) be …

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Review: Eroscillator 2 Plus w/ Soft Finger

Eroscillator 2 Plus

Part sonic screwdriver, part steampunk electric toothbrush the Eroscillator 2 Plus looks like the kind of toy your mom would have spent her formative years jerking off with, and she very well might have. This thing has been around forever- it’s the hipster retro foreign film of sex toys. It may not be a household name like The Wand Formerly Known as the Hitachi but it has garnered a much deserved cult following from those in the know. What …

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