Workshops and Education

Bex Caputo is an experienced public speaker, sex educator, and podcast host. Bex’s workshops strive to be inclusive, socially conscious, informative, and most importantly entertaining. Their work is based around a platform of edutainment, where they strive for humor and engagement while integrating concise and actionable advice.

See below for a detailed list of their offerings or to download a printable PDF. To book Bex to teach at your store, college, or event, please contact: BexTalksSex (at)


“Bex is a super engaging presenter, full of charming anecdotes and wise advice. They have a knack for taking a confusing, convoluted topic and making it both comprehensible and hilarious.”


“Bex is one of the best sex educators that I have seen speak in recent years. ​They truly engage the crowd in a way that is accessible and relatable for folks who are complete beginners on the topic, all the way to experts in the field. Their language is wholly inclusive and non-assumptive, and they convey knowledge in a way that is light-hearted and humorous without losing any ounce of authority that they hold in their skill.”


Download A Printable List Of Class Offerings Here


Presenter Bio: Bex Caputo is a sex educator, blogger, speaker, and podcaster. They’ve been a proud and undeniable kinkster ever since they insisted on being served their meals in a dog bowl at the age of 8 (and even before that, probably). They’re a Virgo, a Hufflepuff, a pup, and a nonbinary queerdo who grew up into the pop-punk skater boy they always had a crush on in high school.

You can find them on Twitter @BexTalksSex, on their blog at, or on their weekly podcast The Dildorks!

Custom Workshops:

Looking for a sex educator to come to your event, college, or for some one on one consulting? Bex is available for one or two hour in person or Skype workshops designed specifically around your needs. Send them your questions in advance for a detailed lesson or just book them for a Q&A! Bex is experienced at teaching:

  • Pleasure Based Sex Education (Oral Sex, Butt Stuff, Sexy Anatomy, etc)
  • Kink for Beginners (Spice Up Your Relationship, Role-Play, Spanking, etc)
  • Flirting, Dating, and Communication (Sexting, Dirty Talk, Online Dating, Consent, etc)
  • Adult Retail Product and Sales Trainings
  • And More!

Bangin’ BJs: Tips and Tricks for the Cocksucking Connoisseur

Cock Sucking

Join us as we take your blowjobs to the next level! From the most sensitive spots to hand and mouth techniques, we’ll cover the basics before going deeper to cover power dynamics, deep-throating, strap on BJs, and more. This is a class for the true cocksucking enthusiast and is designed to explore the myriad of possibilities when it comes to sucking cock.

Length: 90 min

G-Spots and Vajaculation

G-Spot and Pure Wand

Looking for help finding your (or a lover’s) G-spot? Looking to learn to ejaculate for the first time? Or just looking to kick your G-spot play up a notch? Either way this workshop is for you! In this trans-inclusive workshop we’ll cover basic G-spot anatomy, hand and finger techniques, what makes a toy great for G-spotting, and how to soak your sheets!

Length: 90 min

Playing With Power: Building Dynamite Dynamics

Flirting While KinkyLove the thought of succumbing to someone else’s power but not sure where to start? Want to take control without looking like a massive tool? Bex will teach you how to negotiate power dynamics from playful to intimidating, designed to last the night or the duration of your relationship. Learn to channel your inner dominant or submissive, integrate tasks, protocol, and punishment, explore role play, and include all the best props!

Length: 90 min


Flirt Like A Millennial: Banging and Banter in the Digital Age

Grumpy Tinder

Can I add that cutie from the bar on Facebook? How do I woo someone 140 characters at a time? What’s the difference between being direct, and being a creep? How do I compose a truly scintillating sext? Flirting is complicated enough in person, and now more and more of our interactions are happening online where nuance, tone, and intent are even harder to decipher. In this workshop we’ll discuss skills for online dating, social media courtship, sexting, and more!

Length: 120 min


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